You're one person at work, another with your family, another when you're alone. The parts of yourself you've disowned, your anger, your neediness, your shame, are running the show. It's time to integrate your shadow and live with unshakeable integrity.
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You tell yourself you value honesty, but you're hiding things. You claim to be present, but you're checked out. You say you're courageous, but you're playing it safe. That split is exhausting.
Your disowned anger leaks out as passive aggression. Your denied neediness manifests as control. Your hidden shame drives perfectionism. You can't fix what you won't face.
You're one man in the boardroom, another at home, another at 2am. You've built a successful persona, but you've had to disown parts of yourself to do it. The emptiness is the absence of wholeness.
Every month you stay fragmented, you're teaching the people closest to you that this is normal. It's not. And deep down, you know you're capable of wholeness.
"I've been exactly where you are. That's why I know the way out."
I had the career. The respect. The title. But I was performing in my own life.
I'd sit across from my partner and feel completely alone. We'd have the same fight about the same thing. I'd promise it would be different. It wasn't. I was exhausted from pretending everything was fine when nothing felt real.
Then I stopped running from what I was avoiding. I faced my shadow, the parts of myself I'd disowned, denied, and hidden. That's when everything changed. Not because my circumstances changed. Because I integrated.
Now I help other men do the same: break the patterns that have kept them stuck, build real connection with the people who matter, and create lives that actually feel like theirs.
10 yrs
Married
20+
Years entrepreneur
Shadow
Work Practitioner
L2
Gottman Certified
Keep having the same arguments with the same person about the same things
Keep wondering if this is all there is
Keep performing while the real you stays hidden
Watch years pass while the void gets deeper
Own all of yourself instead of compartmentalizing
Align your public values with your private behavior
Stop the secret sabotage that's been undermining you
Become the same man everywhere. No masks, just authentic power
We identify what you're hiding and denying. Real conversation. Not a pitch. I ask you questions that most people never ask. You'll leave knowing exactly what's been running the show, and it probably won't be what you think.
We understand your shadow's purpose and reclaim its energy. Not generic advice. Not "read this book." A targeted intervention designed for the specific parts of yourself you've disowned. You'll know exactly what to do and why.
You become the same man everywhere. Weekly sessions. Real work. We systematically integrate the parts you've hidden and build wholeness that lasts. By week 12, you'll be integrated. Not because you changed your circumstances, but because you became whole.
Every man starts somewhere. Pick the one that fits where you are.
A short call to get clarity.
A focused hour to talk things through and get unstuck.
Dismantle the "Nice Guy" and integrate your power.
I finally understand why I kept repeating the same patterns. Lesly didn't just tell me what was wrong. He showed me how I was creating it. And more importantly, how to stop. This work changed everything.
Michael T.
Founder · San Francisco
Still unsure? These might help.
Most coaches treat symptoms. They give you tactics. We go after root causes, the patterns you've been running from your whole life. It's not about quick fixes or motivation hacks. It's about real transformation that lasts because you've actually changed, not just your circumstances.
Most men feel a shift within the first session. They see something about themselves they've been avoiding. Real, lasting change shows up over 8-12 weeks as new patterns become natural. This isn't magic. It's work. But it works.
That's exactly what the discovery call is for. We'll talk honestly about where you are. I'll ask you questions that help you see what's been keeping you stuck. If coaching isn't right for you, I'll tell you. No pressure. No pitch.
No. I'm a coach, not a therapist. We focus on patterns, relationships, and forward movement, not clinical diagnosis or trauma processing. If you need therapy, I'll help you find the right person. But if you're ready to change your patterns, this is the work.
You're ready if you're tired of the same patterns repeating. If you know something needs to change but you're not sure what. If you're willing to look at yourself honestly. That's it. You don't need to have it all figured out.
30 minutes. No cost. Just a real conversation about where you are and what's possible.
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